It’s not just HELP
Many days passed before it turned out that we were able to reconcile both private life and our work. By profession, I am an IT specialist with many years of experience in the industry. The day when I had to face the challenges faced by an adult while working, came very quickly. On the first day, my boss informed me that we would have to work late to finish the project. I remember this project very well, it was about mobile games and some related website. At home, the child, the wife waits with dinner and we study the content of Google Apps until late at work in such a way as to best match the content to it. After returning, everyone is asleep, there is no point in waking anyone up. Shower, cold soup and for sleeping. Call in the morning, the service was poorly performed, the client is furious, the management wants to fire us and charge us for the work we have not done. There is no that, after meeting at work and clarifying a few issues, we reach an agreement, the whole thing died down significantly after the call of my dad who, by the way, is a senator. I go back to my classes to leave on time this time. Unfortunately it fails and the whole process is repeated anew. A few hours in front of the computer can make you tired and take away the desire to do anything. Mobile applications, I will remember it for as long as I can.
Out of the problem
At first it was not easy, there were arguments, threats of moving away from my wife. With time, everything clarified, the turning point was my daughter breaking security while playing on an android phone. Then I realized that everything that matters to me is at home, not at work. I informed my boss that I would not stay at work after hours, even if it would end with our cooperation. Since then, I have devoted much more time to my daughter and wife. We spend holidays together and go for walks. I recommend quitting your job and enjoying life.
How to live anew
All we need to be able to work like today is peace. It is an opportunity to spend time with family and friends. Playing mobile games in free time. Relaxation not only in your free time but also during work. Meditation helps me stay afloat even when I don’t see a way out.
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